@nyx Indeed. Reinforces everything I love about the pup headspace.

Not having to hide it and instead being comfortable with everyone knowing and accepting this pup is in diapers was a massive confidence boost.

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Must also be said that wandering round an event overtly diapered is astonishingly empowering.

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Back from a pup event. Wore a skirt, even took it off for a while so I was just in a diaper and t-shirt. Few other pups in just diapers, which is just the cutest thing ever.

Ok, so wearing a diaper under a skirt is all kinds of sexy!

New skirt and thigh high socks arrived today. Going to wear at the next pup meet I attend, likely with a diaper underneath. Eep! Been wearing the skirt casually all day, and feels great. Headspace it creates is definitely non-binary as opposed to femme, which aligns with how I thought it would be. Very interested in exploring that side of myself.

New game! Talked about wearing and wetting regular boxers under a diaper before - now using those same boxers as a booster, then letting them dry naturally and wearing them as regular underwear when not diapered. They now have a really nice feel and scent.

@SissyJordan Just purchased my first ever skirt, and going to wear at a pup event, very likely whilst diapered. The chance of it riding up so people notice is both scary and quite a turn on!

So, obviously enjoy wearing and using diapers. Also enjoy wetting regular underwear. Tonight's new game is wearing a diaper over regular underwear so I can wet them both at the same time!

@CanadianBabyBoy About 15 years - was in my early 30s when I discovered (or I suppose rediscovered) them. I'd just bought a flat and my job was morphing into more of a career, and I found diapers really helped alleviate the stresses that brought.

Also serves as a defence mechanism against and subversion of a lot of the societal pressures to conform to an expected template, which I find mentally liberating.

Starting to feel like my pup side is moving away from male and towards a non-binary identity. Bought a few skirts and dresses of late, and will likely wear at pup meets and pup-inclusive kink events. Doesn't mentally fit the cross-dressing definition, as I'm not trying to be femme or sissy, rather I feel like I just want to step outside the binary and explore. Pup head space seems to work as a vehicle for that.

Would be nice to have some "diaper social" time with someone. Not an ABDL play date or kink scene, just going for a nice walk, watching TV, playing games and having some nice food, but with both of us openly wearing and exclusively using diapers. There's a nice trust element in being that comfortable with each other.

Starting to really enjoy peeing myself whilst un-diapered, both because it feels nice, but also I think because it reinforces diapers as the right choice for me.

@mHabdl I've often heard rumours that journalists and photographers wear diapers when covering developing events so as not to miss anything. No idea if true.

@Diapertx I did that with my first pup tail! Eyes bigger than my, well, you know. Got a smaller one in the end, which is great, but want to be able to take the bigger one eventually.

First time properly using washable booster pad. Won't be the last. Made things so much nicer! I may upload the "after" pics if I'm feeling brave.

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First photos for a good while. Still in diaper and booster from earlier tonight.

Out for drinks and socialising tonight. First time for a good while due to Covid anxiety. Decided to rely on diaper and booster for the night (no changes), which made me a bit nervous at first, as haven't worn out and about for ages, but handled everything no problem. Reassuring to have no issues with being wet in public too, as it helps me be confident it's the right choice for me.

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