Pondering whether/how to ask husband if he'd be ok with me going #2 in my diaper around the house occasionally? He's fine with wetting, but we've never really talked about messing. It's never been a big thing for me before, but starting to feel like I can't really just wander into the room with a loaded diaper and say "oh yeah, so I do this now"!

It's never good to just "do it" I would sit down. And talk it out

It's good that you want to talk to your husband about it. Me, I invariably need to poop about the time I'm having my first coffee in the morning. So a few years ago I just started doing it in my diaper. It's just so convenient. I didn't give him much choice in the matter, but my husband has always been okay with it. 🤷‍♂️💩🚼

@mHabdl That's sort of where I want to be. Not looking for 24/7 or him changing me (not his thing), but I'm diapered at home maybe 40% of the time, and it would be nice to have the freedom to go #2 during that time. In an ideal world it would be part of morning routine when I'm on my way to the bathroom anyway.

Yes, that's what it is for me - part of my morning routine. And clean-up is just part of my shower routine. I try not to make a mess in my diaper during the day if I can help it - because of the clean-up. (Accidents do happen however!) 🙎‍♂️🚼

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