If you're on twitter, I'm relatively new there: https://twitter.com/ABDL88BOI
So I've found that I want a relationship with a guy but have a very hard time defining who I am. I find guys attractive and arousing, yet my abDL side is my preferred method of release. When I see what an Asexual is I can largely relate, but I'm also aware of my gay attraction to men. I find that I value an intellectual connection, hugs, and kissing with a man but am fine with just that. What are your thoughts on this?